Give Yourself a dateline and set 3 kinds of goals.
A Stretch Goal
A Minimum Goal
If you set just 1 goal and if you don't meet it, you will feel like a failure...
So if you hit at least a minimum goal, you know your ideas are validated or you're correct
Adjust your effort based on which goal you've met.
So if you hit the minimum goal, you stop killing yourself.
If you meet the regular goal, you can scale back a little...
Your stretch goal, just let God or Universe take care of it!
But try to do a quarterly goal as it's much easier.
Every 3 months or 90 days is a good goal that is still within your control
The Max that you can set a goal is perhaps 2 years.
Don't be bothered by failure if you've given it your all.
You can fail a lot a not labelled it a failure.
You just have to know in your head that if you had done something, you would have it your all.
So if you feel you're not rich or you're not in good physical shape, just tell yourself that it's not failure, it's just that you have not decided to give your all for it yet.
Because if you do, you will give it your all.
Don't label yourself or situation wrongly.